Look What You Made Me Do.

Everyone hates Taylor Swift.

(But then secretly sings along to her catchy hits as a guilty pleasure when the windows are up in the car during rush hour!).

She has been in the news a lot lately from the KYGO Butt-Grab scandal to the Kanye/Kim feuds. She is accused of playing the victim. She is accused of being a melodramatic, boy-crazy stalker. She is accused of manipulating her reputation.

What happened to the “sweet” and “innocent” Taylor circa “Tim McGraw” and “Teardrops on my Guitar” in her fairy tale ballgowns and golden ringlets of the early 2000s?

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The answer is in her new song, “Look What You Made Me Do.”

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To be honest, I despise(d?) the song. It is repetitive and sounds like a Selena-style-sell-out. However, then I watched the music video, which cites each accusation with poignant self-deprecating parody, and she “kills” the reputations of the “Old Taylor.” At first, I thought it was morbid and vindictive–worse than Wuthering HeightsHeathcliff.

But instead, this video seemed to me a bold, brave declaration of the consequences of hatred. 

As much as we want to refute that “they cannot make you do anything” or that you “can stay true to yourself,” things–or people–can ruin us (at least the “us” that the world used to know). Our innocence can be stripped away. I know what it is like to be “ruined.” To lose the love of my life. My home. And even my family. I tried to cling to the illusion that as long as I “stayed true to myself” that I could repair the wrongs that were done. I could fix it and stay on top. But no, my old life died. The person I knew myself to be died. But that is okay because the person that emerged was that much stronger for it.

Taylor tried to cling to the illusion that if we are nice and kind that the world will be fair with her song, “Mean.” Remember, why do you have to be so mean? 

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Guess what? The media didn’t get it. The populace didn’t get it.

And now? Will they get this video? No. Which is precisely why I am compelled to defend the singer-songwriter whose new beats don’t particularly strike my fancy. Taylor has frantically tried to be true to herself through her evolution through music, which some country fans find so disturbing because how could she go from being a cute cowgirl to an electronic dominatrix? How could she grow up and persevere through the nasty slights that haunt her every move?

I challenge you: What is wrong with her changing? What is wrong with her developing grit and strength?

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We can all try to stay “true to ourselves,” but we are fluid beings. Receptive to the environment that cultivates us. We cannot be the same person we were a decade ago. Especially in a world where everything we do is wrong. When everyone is a critic. I would hate it if I were the same girl I was in 8th grade. Why must we resist change?

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I want to listen to Taylor Swift’s “Love Story” and believe that true love and Romeo will solve all of my problems, but they won’t. Because I grew up. Some might call it “jaded.” I just have experienced too much in my life to earnestly believe that love can conquer it all. In fact, Shakespeare proved it in Romeo and Juliet. Death. Only death could solve the feuds of the families of Montague and Capulet. As much as we would like to believe that love can cure hatred, it doesn’t. Death does. But guess who dies? The innocent ones. Romeo and Juliet. Sweet Taylor. Sweet Alexa.

But not forever. Because we will emerge from the ashes. Determined. Strong. Different.

I’m sorry if that makes you uncomfortable, but we cannot be doe-eyed children in a world ruled by hate. But we will survive. Because we are strong. Because you made us do it.

Look what you made me do. 

 

 

One thought on “Look What You Made Me Do.

  1. orrkid123 says:

    Agh I can not tell you how much I appreciate this post, Ms. Brooks. Even though I myself am not an avid Taylor Swift fan, through all of this drama I’ve been waiting for someone to step out and more or less defend Taylor like you did, so thank you!

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